Tips
for managing holiday stress
By Andrea Novak
Work,
parties, shopping, baking, cleaning, entertaining relatives, finances,
and
other chores are just a few of the demands people face during the
holiday
season. And with all these holiday
hassles, stress can get the best of you. Here
are some tips for managing your holiday
stresses.
- Chris
Woolston, writing for Healthyme.com,
says you need to stay out of holiday debt. Know
your limits—after all, expensive gifts
don’t guarantee a happy
holiday. A recipient may just feel
guilty if they receive a pricy gift, especially if it’s not really
wanted, adds
Woolston. If you have a large extended
family, suggest a name exchange—they may appreciate the break, too.
- Avoid a
family feud. Woolston says if your whole
family gets along, consider it a blessing! The
holiday is a great time to spend together! But
if your family has conflict, Woolston
warns that the holidays can become a battlefield. Involve everyone in
planning
and decision-making! Suggest going out
to a nice restaurant to eat so everyone will be on their best
behavior—after
all, most fights tend to happen at the dining room table!
- Go easy on
the alcohol. Woolston and other
authorities agree that too much alcohol may just add to the stress! You may say something you regret, and you
could end up feeling lousy the next day, she says.
- Munch on
healthy snacks. Another cookie won’t
make you feel better! Have a few healthy
snacks available! If you find yourself
eating to relieve stress, stay away from the kitchen and confront your
emotions
in a healthy way, says Woolston.
- Don’t try to
do everything! Doing crafts with your
kids will be just as fun for them after the holidays, or even in
January! If you’re in charge of making the
“big meal”
this year, Woolston advises that you ask for lots of help!
People take pride in their own recipes, and
will be glad to bring a dish!
- Take a
moment to appreciate things. Look around
at all the people in your life. Put in
some holiday music or make yourself your favorite holiday drink.
- Give
yourself time to travel. Woolston says
remember whether you are on the road or in an airport, everyone around
you is
in the same situation. Take a deep
breath, slow down, and be courteous.
- Finally do
not expect too much. No holiday is
perfect! Just take it all in, relax,
have fun, and remember that the holiday season only comes around once a
year.
Remember to stay positive, and with these
practical
tips,
you may enjoy your holiday a little more!
Links
Stress, depression and the holidays: 12 tips for coping.
(2007, October 19). Retrieved December 5, 2007, from http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/stress/MH00030
Woolston, C. (2003, December 3). Holiday
Stress. Retrieved December 6, 2007, from http://www.ahealthyme.com/topic/holidaystress
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